I’ve always been an advocate for indie developers helping their collegues out in any form. But seriously there comes a point when things can be blown out of proportions and obviously that does not help anyone. As is the case with a post made on IndieGamer.com about Malathedra. So I do recommend that you take a time to read this thread and analize what happened and how to avoid conversations like this in the future.
(Hint: There is no way to avoid this type of conversation. They will always happen.)